I'm reading this great book called Female Ejaculation & The G-Spot. It was a suggested to me by a friend that I learn about female ejaculation in hopes of improving my husbands and my relationship, sexually and otherwise.
I ordered this book from EdenFantasys. I really had not heard of any such thing as female ejaculation so, I wasn't sure what I was getting into. Well, let me tell you what a very enlighting experience has begun within myself.
The author, Deborah Sundahl is an expert on female ejaculation. She was co publisher for a women's erotic magazine, an erotic dancer, has written and lectured and has also made top selling videos on female ejaculation and the G-spot.
Deborah adds a lot of her own experiences and real experiences of other women and men. She explains what learning about female ejaculation and your G-spot can do for you and how every woman can benefit from it, even women that already ejaculate. The book is divided into 3 parts and 9 chapters.
Part one is on th phenomenon of female Ejaculation.
In the first chapter she takes you into one of her female ejaculation workshops. Which is very interesting, you feel like you’re there with the other women. In the second chapter you learn how to identify your G-spot and other important sexual parts of your anatomy. You'll learn about the three different types of orgasms (clitoral, G-spot & uterine), the role your G-spot has in female ejaculation, your G-spot nerve and about your pelvic muscles. There are several illustrations on the female anatomy. The third chapter is about the ancient history of female ejaculation.
Part two is about teaching techniques.
Now the good stuff starts when in chapter four she teaches you how to test the strength and flexibility of your PC muscles. If they are weak she gives you exercises to strengthen and build healthy PC muscles that will allow you to let your sexual energy to flow freely. You learn step by step how to find and stimulate your G-spot. Basically you are learning about yourself and about the pleasure and feelings that make YOU feel good. When you have this down, she takes you step by step how into ejaculating without an orgasm. Then it gets even better in chapter five when you learn step by step how to ejaculate with an orgasm. It just keeps getting better when in chapter six you then bring your partner into the picture and begin to ease them in on all you've learned. She includes the best positions for ejaculating. The best is chapter seven when your partner learns how to find and stimulate your G-spot and the techniques to pleasure and stimulate your G-spot to help you to ejaculate during lovemaking. Sweet, hah? The ultimate pleasure!
Part three is healing the G-spot and includes a lovemaking scene.
Now, as you go through this sexual awakening and learn all about your G-spot and ejaculation, if you experience any pain or negative feelings she goes though how you can reawaken your G-spot and heal emotional and sexual blocks so you are able to open up again to pleasure and energy with the use of G-spot massage. She walks you through how it is done. She'll take you inside a sexual healing/G-spot massage session that she sat in on with Jwala (one of the most progressive and well educated sexual wellness experts) and Tantric/sexual healer, Victor Gold when Jwala felt menopause was causing blocks and shutting down her sexual energy and desires. A very informative chapter! In chapter nine she goes though an ejaculation lovemaking scene and the connection to yourself and your partner. Then she recaps all that you've learned. In the very back of the book is a glossary, references and a wealth of resources.
This author is very positive and open in her goal to help women reconnect with their sexual energy through teaching awareness and plain and clear techniques to discover your G-spot and learn to ejaculate. She encourages you to keep a G-spot & ejaculation journal of your explorations, emotions and experiences. They can be in writing or even personal art, just way to express your feelings. There’s even a section on G-spot sex toys.
I have learned so many things about myself from reading this book. Like, for years when my husband and I would have a longer lovemaking session, I’d always think I needed to stop and go pee. When I got to the toilet I’d pee a drop or nothing at all. Little did I know that my husband was stimulating my G-spot go much that, what I really needed to do was ejaculate. WOW, I just had no idea. I sure wish I had known that then. By the way, ejaculate is not pee but gives you a feeling like that. I can attest that every woman can learn how to ejaculate and every woman should embrace this right. I can now ejaculate and welcome this intense pleasure. As of yet, I’m not quite ready to bring my husband in on my new discovery. I’m still working on my techniques and healing a couple of blocks and learning to relax more. I’ll be posting on my blog from time to time on my progress, emotions and experiences. So, stay tuned for more.
I highly recommend this book to every woman and their partners. We all need to discover the power within us, not to mention the most intense arousal, most intense pleasure and damn it’s just so good and we want the wildest, wettest and deepest orgasms we can possibly have. Right?
So, go order Female Ejaculation & The G-Spot from your favorite toy store.. Can you I love this book? I hope you enjoyed this review. Thanks!